By Ryan “Dickie” Thompson
When I first shared my experience with Jilyn Delan Abella, also known as Jelly Naled, I thought I had already uncovered most of her lies. But since that post, many readers and former acquaintances have come forward with new information—and it’s worse than I expected.
This follow-up report is based on the new discoveries and accounts that were brought to me after the first article went live. It shows a pattern of manipulation, deception, and possibly serial online romance scams.
A Secret Past Relationship with Another Foreign Man
One of the most shocking revelations came from her old Facebook profile:
👉 facebook.com/nylij.alleba.9
On this account, she appears to have been in a relationship with an older foreign gentleman, likely in his 60s. They were pictured together, and in 2018, she had a baby with him.
This was never mentioned to me—not once. She told me I was only her second sexual partner, and that she had only ever been with a Filipino man who had recently died in a car accident.
Now we know, without a doubt, this was a lie.
That baby from 2018 would be about 7 or 8 years old now. Which means she has at least three children, not two.
The Two Sons I Was Told About
When I met her, she introduced me to two children:
- Christoff, age 2
- Dylan Cash Thompson, age 6 months (my supposed son)
Even at a glance, these two children do not resemble each other. Christoff is much darker-skinned, while Dylan appears to be half-white—raising more questions about their different fathers.
Now, after discovering her 2018 relationship with the older foreigner, it’s likely that each child has a different father. This brings the known number of potential baby daddies to at least three.

The STD I Now Have
After these recent discoveries, something else makes more sense:
I was diagnosed with an STD shortly after our relationship began.
This was shocking to me at the time, because she had sworn I was only her second partner ever. I now believe, based on the evidence, that I was nowhere near the second—and probably not even close to the tenth.
This isn’t just about betrayal. It’s about health, safety, and truth. She knowingly put my health at risk while lying about her sexual history.
A Web of Facebook Profiles and Fake Names
Since the first article, I’ve found at least six active Facebook accounts tied to her. Some of them are now being deleted or hidden. But screenshots and links have been saved.
Here are the Facebook profiles linked to her:
- https://www.facebook.com/nylij.alleba.9
- https://www.facebook.com/nylij.alleba
- https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100073102218236
- https://www.facebook.com/nylij.naledalleba
- https://www.facebook.com/61568175631034 (This one featured her and me in the profile photo)

I also used Facebook search to find more aliases:
🔍 Search: Nylij Naled Alleba
She has operated under many different names, including:
- Nylej Naled Alleba
- Jelyn Nalied Alleba
- Jelyn Nallied Alleba
- Jelly Nallied Alleba
- Jelyn Delan Alleba
- Jelyn Nalied Delan Alleba
- Jelyn Nallied Delan Alleba
- Jelly Nalied
- Jelly Naled
- Jilyn Naled
- Jelly Nalied Alleba
This kind of behavior shows a clear pattern of deception and identity switching, which is common among online scammers who want to avoid being traced.
She Lied About Her Hometown Too
Another key detail: she told me she was from Bantayan Island. That was a lie.
Her actual hometown is Carmen, Cebu, Philippines, as shown on her PhilHealth ID card.
Again, this may seem small, but it’s part of a much larger pattern of dishonesty. When someone lies about everything from their hometown to their number of children, it’s usually for a reason.
Why This Matters
The deeper I dig, the more lies I uncover. What started as a romantic relationship ended up being a network of manipulation, lies, and health risks.
This isn’t just about personal betrayal—it’s a public safety issue. If she’s been doing this with multiple foreign men, it raises major red flags for potential romance scams and health risks.
To those reading this: I share my story so you can avoid the same trap. The more we speak out, the harder it becomes for repeat offenders to keep hiding behind fake profiles and sweet talk.
More Information is Coming In
Since publishing the first article, I’ve received dozens of messages from people who knew her, dated her, or saw similar red flags.
This is far from over. New names, accounts, and stories keep coming in, and I’ll continue to post updates here on DatingScams.online.
If You’ve Had a Similar Experience…
Please reach out through the contact form on this site or message me directly. Your story might help protect others from being hurt or manipulated.
Signing off for now,
Ryan “Dickie” Thompson
Truth-teller. Liberty-lover. Scam-fighter.
More images incase anyone else is getting scammed by this woman.







