By Ryan “Dickie” Thompson
Back in my original blog post, I shared how I was scammed for 8 months by a woman who went by multiple aliases—primarily Jelly Naled and Jilyn Delan Alleba. At the time, I thought I knew the whole story.
Turns out, I didn’t even know half of it.
Since going public, several people have come forward with new information, photos, and links to hidden Facebook accounts that paint a much darker picture of her past. She told me I was her second and only other partner after her deceased husband. She told me she had only two children—one of whom was unborn when we met.
Now I know the truth: She has five children, and she’s hidden three of them from me completely.
🚩 The Original Lies She Told Me
When we met in late 2024, she told me:
- Her husband had died in a motorcycle accident
- She had one child, a toddler son
- She was pregnant with her second child
- She had never loved anyone else and had only ever been with two men
I felt compassion. I supported her during the pregnancy. I paid for prenatal care, PhilHealth renewal, and delivery expenses. I even let her name the baby after me: Dylan Cash Thompson. I agreed—reluctantly and under pressure—to put my name on the birth certificate as the legal father.
But after publishing my original post, the floodgates opened. Her history, which she carefully kept hidden, was exposed.
💔 The Truth: Five Children, Multiple Men
Let’s break it down:
👶 Child #1 – Daughter born around 2013/2014
Evidence from old Facebook profiles and photos indicates she had a daughter around 2013/14, which she never mentioned to me once.
Profile with possible daughter:
This daughter would be around 10–11 years old today.
👦 Child #2 – Son born in 2016/17
Two separate profiles reveal she had a son around 2017. That makes him about 6–7 years old now.
Hidden profiles:
I was never told about this child during the entire 8 months I was with her.
👦 Child #3 – Son born around 2020
Another profile reveals a child of mixed ethnicity, most likely Caucasian-Filipino, born around 2020.
Photos and account:
This child appears to be around 3–4 years old today. Again—never mentioned once.
👦 Child #4 – The toddler she introduced me to (born around 2022)
This is the only child she admitted having when we met—her toddler son, roughly 2 years old when I first saw her.
She would use him emotionally to tie me down, and even became physically abusive to him, as I captured in a recording during one of her outbursts.
👶 Child #5 – Dylan Cash Thompson (born January 30, 2025)
Her fifth child—born while we were together—was named after me. She insisted I be listed as the legal father.
I now know that she was planning to give him up for adoption before convincing me to take responsibility. I covered all financial and medical costs.
🔥 Why This Matters
This woman didn’t just lie about her relationship history or how many kids she had. She:
- Used emotional trauma (a fake story about a deceased partner) to manipulate me
- Hid major parts of her life, including multiple children
- Roped me into legal and financial obligations I didn’t agree to fully
- Lied about being faithful while maintaining connections with multiple men online
- Used her kids as leverage for sympathy, money, and housing
- Repeatedly broke down and emotionally abused both me and her children
I was targeted because I was kind. Because I had a little money. Because I was a father myself and understood responsibility. She exploited all of that.
🧾 The Red Flags You Should Never Ignore
Looking back, there were warning signs:
- Never meeting her family
- Refusing to show her past Facebook accounts
- Always claiming her ex-partner was dead (without evidence)
- Sudden emotional breakdowns anytime I asked basic questions
- Secrecy about where she went or who she talked to
- Children who “appeared” suddenly with no explanation
- Aggression and gaslighting whenever caught in a lie
She is not just a manipulative partner—she’s a professional liar who uses motherhood as a trap.
🎯 Why I’m Sharing This
Too many men are falling into this pattern. You meet a sweet-looking Filipina online. She tells you a sob story. You open your heart, and soon your wallet. Then you’re stuck in a maze of lies, fake IDs, and hidden pasts.
We started DatingScams.online and the Dating Scams Filipinas Facebook Group to protect other men from this.
✅ What You Can Do Now
- Check her social media history – don’t settle for one account
- Search by alias and photo – use Google image search and name variations
- Talk to her “relatives” independently – many are not family at all
- Never sign legal documents (birth certificates, leases, etc.) under pressure
- Trust your gut—and don’t dismiss red flags
📣 Help Us Spread Awareness
We need your help. Join our group. Share your story. Call this behavior out.
📌 Facebook Group: Dating Scams Filipinas
🌐 Website: www.DatingScams.online
📺 Watch “The Filipina Pea” on YouTube for more content like this
⚠️ Warning to Other Men
If you’re currently involved with Jelly Nallied, Jilyn Delan Alleba, or any variation of those aliases, know this: You’re not her first, you’re not her only, and you won’t be her last.
This is a pattern. A trap. And many of us are now speaking up.
🧾 Comprehensive Online Profile and Alias Reference: Jilyn Delan Abella (Carmen, Cebu, Philippines)
Introduction
This section compiles all known and plausible online identities, aliases, and Facebook accounts associated with Jilyn Delan Abella, born December 17, 1993, from Carmen, Cebu, Philippines. She is known to operate under numerous aliases and maintain multiple Facebook profiles. This record serves as a reference point for investigators, victims, and concerned individuals looking to verify or report her online activity.
🔐 Core Personal Details
- Legal Name: Jilyn Delan Abella
- Date of Birth: December 17, 1993 (Age: 31)
- Location: Carmen, Cebu, Philippines
🌐 Social Media Profiles (Primary and Aliases)
📌 Direct Facebook Links
- facebook.com/profile.php?id=61566847647433
- facebook.com/nylij.alleba.9
- facebook.com/nylij.alleba
- facebook.com/profile.php?id=100073102218236
- facebook.com/nylij.naledalleba
- facebook.com/61568175631034 (Profile photo includes subject and reporter)
- facebook.com/search/people/?q=Nylij%20Naled%20Alleba
🔍 Possible/Related Accounts
- facebook.com/jelynchilman/ (Lists Carmen, Cebu as hometown)
📊 Online Footprint & Search Results
- Instagram / TikTok / Twitter: No public results under known aliases
- LinkedIn / PRC / TESDA / Business Registry: No official matches or verified listings
📛 Expanded List of Known and Possible Aliases
Use these aliases to track hidden or new accounts. These variations include spelling changes, rearrangements, nicknames, and stylized identity forms:
Nylij Naled Alleba, Nylej Naled Alleba, Nylej Alleba, Nylej Delan, Nylej Delan Alleba,
Jelyn Nalied Alleba, Jelyn Nallied Alleba, Jelly Nallied Alleba, Jelyn Delan Alleba,
Jelyn Nalied Delan Alleba, Jelyn Nallied Delan Alleba, Jelly Nalied, Jelly Naled,
Jilyn Naled, Jelly Nalied Alleba, Jelly Naled Alleba, Jelly Alleba, Jelly Delan Alleba,
Andrea Shannelle, Jelyn Delan Alleba (Andrea Shannelle), Dl Vlle Zapphire, Tharindu (possibly),
Jelyn Alleba, Jelyn Delan, Naled Alleba, Naled Delan, Naled Jelyn, Naled Jilyn,
Naled Nylij, Nylij Alleba, Nylij Delan, Nylij Nalied, Nylij Nallied, Nylij Jelly, Nylij Jelyn,
Nyli Alleba, Nyli Delan, Nyli Nalied, Nyli Nallied, Nyli Jelly, Nyli Jelyn,
Jelyn Naled, Jelyn Nylij, Jelyn Nyli, Jelyn Jelly, Jelyn Jilyn, Jilyn Alleba,
Jilyn Delan, Jilyn Delan Alleba, Jilyn Nalied Delan Alleba, Jelyn D. Alleba, N. D. Alleba,
J. D. Alleba, Jelyn A. Delan, Jelyn D. Alleba, Delan Alleba, Delan Jelyn, Delan Jelly,
Delan Naleed, Delan Jilyn, Jelly D. Alleba, Jelly D. Delan, Naleed Alleba, Naleed Delan,
Naleed Jelyn, Naleed Jilyn, Jelyn N. Alleba, Jelyn N. Delan, Shannelle Alleba, Shannelle Delan,
Shannelle Jelyn, Shannelle Nylij, A. Shannelle, Zapphire Alleba, Zapphire Delan,
Zapphire Jelyn, Zapphire Nylij, DLV Zapphire, DL Zapphire, Vlle Zapphire, Zapphire Delle,
Zapphire D. Alleba, Zapphire D. Delan, Vlle D. Zapphire, Jelyn Zapphire, Jelly Zapphire,
Delan Zapphire, Jilyn Zapphire, Jelyn Delle, Delle Alleba, Delle Jelyn, Delle Nylij, Delle Delan
🛠️ How to Use This Information
- Profile Review: Check each account for photos, timeline activity, friends, or mutual contacts to validate identity.
- Alias Monitoring: Use variations from the alias list in Facebook or Google searches to find hidden or newly created accounts.
- Ongoing Surveillance: Watch for sudden deactivations, name changes, or new profiles with similar contact lists or shared photos.
- Organize Your Research: Use tools like Sheets.Chat or Google Sheets to track names, links, and discoveries in one place.
🧾 Final Notes
Jilyn Delan Abella appears to use dozens of names and identities online, with frequent changes to evade detection. While her digital footprint is focused on Facebook, new profiles may emerge using aliases from this list.
Stay alert. Document everything. Help protect others.
